Problems with pronouns

So, now that we have decided to not discover the gender of our baby we are stuck with a pronoun dilemma.  So as we move forward with this forum please do not assume that an errant "he" or "she" means we know anything about little baby Thiel's bits and pieces.  We have both determined that "it" just doesn't fit - so we are stuck with the pronoun problem. Any suggestions?

K